Yesterday I came across a write up about cheating men entitled "Danger Zone: The Married Man" on this blogger's site. We all think about the younger woman who's dating a married man as a hussy but really, could it be the man's own doing that encouraged the younger woman to fall in love with him? Growing up I've heard mum's friends talk about cheap younger women yang tak sedar diri who go after their rich, successful husband. I never hear about how awful it was that their husband started a relationship with a younger, prettier woman. It really is hard to believe that the husband that courted you in your younger days, the one you fed and showered with love all throughout your marriage, the one you gave supported to when he was having trouble or struggling in the earlier days of a career would do such a horrible thing such as flirt with another woman right? Or maybe every other woman knows deep down it is the husband's fault, but it's easier to get angry at the younger hussy. Well, I always thought that if the husband truly loves his wife, he wouldn't even get into a situation that would lead him to cheat on his wife. But maybe men aren't as strong as I think they are?
I'm sure all women have some sort of gut feeling that it could happen to them - the husband cheating on them that is. I can go into full blown paranoia mode if I think too hard about the what ifs in life. But I'm glad I found this post a day after reading the article about the married man. And it made me feel better. Sometimes we all have to believe in our better half and trust that he wouldn't do things to hurt us. And I think it if a couples work on communication and trust, all might be well. Thanks Elisa Taufik for her enlightening and positive post.
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